Please I need all the prayers

**slvjvm922000** · 10-19-2010, 01:31 AM

Well I recieved a call tonight from my sister.

my aunt called her to tell us that if we wanted to see my mom alive we need to get to ny asap. please i need all the prayers i can get. my mom is refusing to go to the hospital because she dont want to die in the hospital she wants to die at home. she slept 19hrs and was up for about 4 hrs and is in bed again. I cant believe this its killing me inside i am stuck. i want to see my mom so bad but i cant take my kids out of school and dont have the money to go. and if i do go then i cant go for the services. the school is only giving 5 days to the kids when my mom passes. what do i do? please i need all the prayers i can get.

**IMinCA** · 10-19-2010, 01:43 AM

Sly- I'm praying for you and your family. I would say go now, once she passed you can't see her again.

**MaraYDelBarrio** · 10-19-2010, 01:45 AM

Praying for you during this difficult time. Please keep strong. Is it possible for you to talk to your Mom? Maybe hearing your voice and telling her how much you love her etc will help both you and her. Even if the kids can't go with I think you should go, even if they have to miss school and stay home.
God Bless your mom very much.

**Mariposa1223** · 10-19-2010, 01:47 AM

I would say go see your mom it is better to be with her while she is till alive IMO I remember when my Grandma was dying, I decided to go see her alive and after I went and came back she died shortly after. I was glad I went to see her and she knew I was there.

**sharycharm** · 10-19-2010, 02:01 AM

I keep you in my prayers girl, and i Would say go with her if you can as well this is more important than anything else, if you feel you need to go and can do it, don't hesitate and go.

god bless your family girl

**ratito921** · 10-19-2010, 02:57 AM

I'm praying for you Stacey *hugs*

**Emi** · 10-19-2010, 03:04 AM

I don't know what the best thing is. I wish I could take all the pain away for you and the kids. This is so hard and so... so. All I KNOW is that Gordo and I are here for you. Whenever, where ever. We love you girl.

**alessandro** · 10-19-2010, 03:05 AM

I will pray ...I promise......I wish you the best.........Aless.

**flilly13** · 10-19-2010, 03:10 AM

omg i dont know what to say! I am soo very sorry for your situation and you are in my prayers!!!!!

**bvallejo** · 10-19-2010, 03:30 AM

Sylvia,

My prayers and thoughts are with you. If you can go, better without the kids. Just because it will give you some alone time with your mom. I also agree it is better to have that chance to say goodbye. I have done it both ways. I prefer to say goodbye and let them know how much they mean to me. Whereas, if you can't you will have tons of things you wish you would have had the chance to say. It is very difficult and there aren't words that will help ease what you are going through. I just hope you get the chance to go.