Thanks everyone for your responses! Right now she will stay with her dad but just wanted to know the options. She is only 13. It's easier for to buy plane ticket for her to come to US to visit then buying several plane tickets! Eventually we might end up in a border town before our 10 year ban is up! But right now the only way everyone can have a roof over their head and food in their stomachs is by us staying in 2 seperate countries. My husband has his house that he built before coming to the US nothing much but there is no monthly rent! He lives on $200 dollars a month!