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MiReyna
11-25-2007, 08:59 PM
Hey all... I haven't been on here in quite awhile, I've had problems with my computer & am still trying to get it worked out...

I just thought I would fill you all in on whats going on with us...

My husband decided he is going to go back to Mexico (well, we both are going) this saturday the 1st of December. He has been very depressed and temperalmental (sp?) so we are going to drive back and I will be returning on Januray and he is going to stay there until we get the appt in CDJ. We have been weighing the pros and cons of it all and he wants so bad to see his family. He will go to the appt. whenever it is and then we will decide on what i am going to do afterwards. Even though 10 years is a long time i think it is worth it in the long run by doing everything lawfully.

This makes me so sad :( but at least me and my daughter can come and go as we please (well, as much as our money can strech)

There is no internet connection in his rancho where we are going unless i want to drive all the way into the pueblo and rent a computer for a few hours... & i doubt i will get to that often, so i will post an update as soon as i get back.

I just hope he sticks to the plan & doesnt try to EWI again after a few months... that i think is what scares me the most... He keeps telling me "well i've been a mojado for 8 years whats the difference if its for the rest of my life" I am just so tired of having to think of ways around certain things, like buying a house, car, etc; and always having to look over our shoulders every time we walk out the door. I thought we lived in a safer area where not to many immigraton raids take place but Not too long ago immigration raided 3 of his cousins houses and deported 7 of his family members.

Im scared.
confused.
lost.

Everynight i pray to God things will work out.
& when you say your prayers please keep us in your thoughts...

Thanks. :sad:

NYCwife
11-25-2007, 09:37 PM
Wow... that is a big move. I hope that it all works out for you and your family. Best wishes for a safe journey and a quick resolution to all your immigration issues.

peace,
nycgrrl

~MP~
11-25-2007, 09:41 PM
good luck...i am not sure how old you are but waiting 1o years in mexico is probably better than living 10 years with fear and paranoia.
take care....

Adriane
11-25-2007, 09:42 PM
Good luck. Where are you in your case so far? I hope your interview comes soon- do you know for sure if you will be eligible to file a waiver?

MiReyna
11-25-2007, 09:54 PM
Good luck. Where are you in your case so far? I hope your interview comes soon- do you know for sure if you will be eligible to file a waiver?

Well, right now we are waiting for our CDJ appt... and have been since september, so thats where were at... & since my husband EWI'd twice i've been told that he isnt eligible for the waiver until he has been out of the US for 10 years... :(

egonzalez1975
11-25-2007, 09:58 PM
MiReyna I hope all goes well with your family and I know that whatever happens it will all turn out okay in the end. Good luck and please do come around and let us know that you are okay.

SHELLYFCO
11-25-2007, 10:21 PM
Wishing you a safe journey.

ratito921
11-25-2007, 11:16 PM
wow this story sounds so familiar. My husband left Dec 1 2005 because he wanted to see his family and just couldn't be away from them anymore. Once he got there and the "new" wore off he was ready to come home. I told him he couldn't come back without his visa. It was a very long year and 8 months. Very LONG

I think your case is different than ours in the fact that your husband has ewi'd twice and that you have a daughter, but if you're going to come back the only advice I have for you is to BE STRONG. This process can take a toll you in every way.

Just remember if you need support we're here and keep the faith. I hope there is a resolution to your case so you two can get on with your lives.

Good luck!!! :D

Cynthia
11-26-2007, 12:27 AM
we wish you the best and stay strong...

keep us posted whenever you can...

~hugs~

KellyKS
11-26-2007, 02:43 AM
I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Have a safe trip and stay strong. I look forward to hearing about your trip when you get back.

What state is your husband from in Mexico?

tasksgirl
11-26-2007, 06:16 AM
ahh no! I will miss you I hope everything will go OK.. you have to make him PROMISE he will not EWI again.. Tell him it is not fair to you and that you can't handle this stress for the rest of your life and that if he does it again he can not be gauranteed a future with you !! I hope everything will work out and I will be thinking of you !! Are you sure he will get the 10 yrs? When were his EWIs?

tasksgirl
11-26-2007, 06:17 AM
Maybe you guys should go to Canada or some other country together to wait out the ban..

Rolake
11-26-2007, 06:56 AM
My prayers are with you. I know that when I pray for my own situation, it is that I will have strength to endure this process and that our reunion will happen quickly....I will whisper the same prayer for you and your family. God bless.

egonzalez1975
11-26-2007, 07:22 AM
wow this story sounds so familiar. My husband left Dec 1 2005 because he wanted to see his family and just couldn't be away from them anymore. Once he got there and the "new" wore off he was ready to come home. I told him he couldn't come back without his visa. It was a very long year and 8 months. Very LONG

I think your case is different than ours in the fact that your husband has ewi'd twice and that you have a daughter, but if you're going to come back the only advice I have for you is to BE STRONG. This process can take a toll you in every way.

Just remember if you need support we're here and keep the faith. I hope there is a resolution to your case so you two can get on with your lives.

Good luck!!! :D

I think Ratito is right because before my husband left he was angry A LOT because he wanted to see his family and said that the US had become his prison. Well, it took him maybe 6 months to want to be back home. You might have your husband talk to someone (if you know anyone) who has already left and how bad it was for them. Or even have him read this thread.

I know that my husband couldn't get to the border fast enough to come back home.

Either way I still hope that all goes well for your family no matter what. And, be safe.

jsierra1982
11-26-2007, 01:57 PM
you are in my prayers mireyna.

christytorres
11-26-2007, 02:33 PM
Sorry to hear about your story MiRenya, I will keep you in my prayers...god bless...

HANNAH19
12-05-2007, 06:02 PM
Has anyone heard of Mi Reyna?, anyways if you see this, your in my prayers God Bless you hope you're doing okay.

joy&pain
12-06-2007, 02:04 AM
I'm so sorry you are going through this. I wish the best for you and your family as you start your new journey!

aprilstorm
12-06-2007, 02:10 AM
My prayers will be with you. Stay strong and if you need anything give us a shout!!!! We are here for you!!!!

slvjvm922000
12-06-2007, 02:14 AM
our prayers are with u let us know when u get back ok.

garcia31
12-12-2007, 05:23 PM
Good luck ...Hang in there.