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[gracey025]

I can vent here, right? This waiver thing is really stressful. It's like it's taking our marriage apart because of the situation. I just feel bad about the whole thing. My husband and I are having problems because of this. It's like torture everyday. I'm scared that our marriage will fall apart if we'll not be together soon. I need your prayers. Thanks. :cry:

[ashleypinzon]

im sorry your going through this but remember it is temporary . Fight For your marriage. Its hard I know.Tacho was only gone june through dec and it almost killed us.

[LilB]

I just prayed for you...hang in there, write love notes to each other, talk without negativity (refuse to talk about the backlog), talk about his and your day, etc. I pray you'll be back together soon!

[dduran]

gracey025 I know what you mean. I was scared of the time apart. But just keep the faith, I will pray that God give you and your hubby peace of heart, that the love you both feel only gets stronger and your approval be faster then fast!!!God Bless you & your family...

[djones9714]

You absolutely can vent here. We are all in the same situation. I am a mother-in-law and I still feel the pain. I am carrying my daughter's pain any way I can so that she doesn't have to carry it by herself. I am sorry for those that don't have the support of your parents to help you get through this. I am sorry for those of you who are separated from your loved ones and I am sorry that our country has to put us through this. I only pray that things will get better and that your loved ones will be home soon. Going through tough times like this is what will really test a marriage and only the strong marriages will prevail. Keep that in mind as you go through each day -- you are strong, your marriage is strong, and you will not let anything or anyone stand in your way.

I know it is easier said than done but don't give up. Not fighting for your marriage is giving up and all bad things will pass soon. You are being tested as we all are at one time or another in our marriages and you will survive the test. Just be strong and take each day at a time. Remember why you got married in the first place. Regardless of whether it is immigration or something else, we must continue fighting for what we want.

[gracey025]

Thanks for your prayers and uplifting words. I need a miracle for things to work out. I'm trying not to think about the situation. It's killing me. It's just too depressing.