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Well my husband's waiver was denied after an eternity passed. Then we have to appeal so i passed it and decided to request another appt. Now I have this adrenaline in me that won't let me sleep just waiting to see if they give me the appt and just last week my son gets diagnosed with autism. My daughter is crazy about her dad and keeps asking if we will see him for christmas. I am going to go crazy. She talks to him every night. My son doesn't even realize my husbands not here. I have two extremes and I don't know what to do but scream (not at them) at the who stupid procedure. Then, I am researching for my hsl and find a quote from Pres. Bush stating how important a father's role. I start balling and wonder if he thinks such than why don't they let my husband home. :cry:
Sabrina022203
10-19-2007, 07:15 PM
I am so sorry to hear about your situation. I will be praying for you and hope that you will have some good news soon!
asolis
10-19-2007, 10:36 PM
Man, you and I need to talk! My husband has been gone 26 months. About 3 months after he left, our son started showing signs of autism. He was diagnosed over a year ago. We have a new interview next week, and I have spent 100 hours on my HSL and documentation. Please please email me at angela@indezyn.com. I would be happy to coach you through, not only the wait, but any advice, help, coaching you need. It is hard, but you can do it!
Blessings,
Angie
aprilstorm
10-20-2007, 02:26 AM
I'm sorry you're having a hard time. My prayers are with you!!!
SHELLYFCO
10-20-2007, 02:31 AM
Hang in there!
This is so sad. But please don't give up!
milliesmom
10-20-2007, 05:34 AM
sdeb, I was just reading your post and my heart started to break for you. Really, truly, I am sorry for all you're going through. But as I read the replies, I saw asolis's post and saw that God sent you an Angel to guide you. I hope you two get in contact with each other and help each other through. The best thing about these forums is that sometimes through all the sharing that goes on, we find people that have experienced almost exactly what we've been through and it helps the process.
I wish you all the best and keep you in my prayers.
cindy101
10-20-2007, 05:55 AM
Hang in there!!! I agree 100% w/ what milliesmom said. The forums on I2US can bring people to us when we need them most, and we can help others when they need us the most!
Some days it seems like everything has fallen apart and you just can't take it any more. But please get in touch with asolis... With the diagnosis of autism, I have to believe they will have a much harder time denying your case this next time around.
Good luck and God bless!
Thank you all for your words. I need so much support that its hard when the support is miles away
Pinkpig
10-22-2007, 05:26 PM
Thank you all for your words. I need so much support that its hard when the support is miles away
Hugs to you and your family. We are all here for you. I hope that you have been in touch with asolis as I think she is a wonderful resource for you. You will get through this. We all will help. Try to keep you head up and remember to breathe. Hugs.
Pinkpig
10-22-2007, 05:28 PM
Man, you and I need to talk! My husband has been gone 26 months. About 3 months after he left, our son started showing signs of autism. He was diagnosed over a year ago. We have a new interview next week, and I have spent 100 hours on my HSL and documentation. Please please email me at angela@indezyn.com. I would be happy to coach you through, not only the wait, but any advice, help, coaching you need. It is hard, but you can do it!
Blessings,
Angie
What a support for Sdeb. Good luck on you appt. next week. I wish you the best. I would like to add you to our list of members filing. Would you like to share your information?
angela256z
10-22-2007, 08:58 PM
Sdeb- I am so sorry to hear about your situation. I pray that you get an interview soon.
tasksgirl
11-06-2007, 12:48 AM
Why was it denied??
Well with that new evidence it should help..
ecobian
11-06-2007, 12:57 AM
sdeb, maybe you can write to your congressman or representative and tell them about your story and even to the president about what he said and how important it is for your family to be reunited. Why would they deny him after so long of waiting? I will keep you in my prayers!!!
It was denied due to lack of extreme hardship. I didn't have all these issues til now. And I didn't understand the whole HSL thing. I did communicate all of this to my senator and she has been great. She helped them give me an answer quickly once I asked her to. I faxed her the info on fri and on following mon got a letter from her that she already contacted CDJ and will get back to me once anything. Thank God for some considerate government people.
Still not getting too much sleep. Need to see doc and get meds for sleep. We'll see.
MARIPLAY
11-07-2007, 09:07 PM
hang in there, and hopefully things get better soon .
I am trying but it's getting harder as time passes. Although all my family is near they don't understand what its like at all. Their words hurt more than help.
THank you for you encouragement.
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