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mamita3
10-15-2007, 04:21 PM
Yesterday, we received a phone call that my father-in-law's closest friend had been robbed and killed in El Salvador. He leaves behind four daughters and a wife. :sad: Eight months prior, my father-in-law himself was robbed and assaulted, but was able to free himself from the dangerous situation, by God's grace! :eek:My husband's aunt just came back from a two week vacation in El Salvador and shared with us that while in the city, a man was attacked and killed right in front of them while selling pandulce on his bike. So, where am I going with this? Well, I am terrified to let my husband go back to a country that is considered "politically calm" for the moment, but the crime rate is at a critical high! Not only is this mentioned on government resources, but personal experiences back it up! These kinds of things happen all the time here in the United States, but it seems as though the system is so corrupt in my husband's country. I feel so defeated right now because if he wants to obtain legal status, he must return to his home country. I shudder at the thought of this very same thing happening to my husband because he could be in the wrong place, at the wrong time trying to do the right thing!:bluesad:

luisymary
10-15-2007, 04:27 PM
I feel the same way! My husband is also from El Salvador and a friend of ours just got killed that had been deported back to El Salvador about 7 months ago. It scares me to death to send him back there. He says that he lives in the "country" so he will be safe but he has to go to the city several times for his interviews and what not.

mamita3
10-15-2007, 08:21 PM
about your friend!:sad: I can't imagine the pain his family must be going through! Sometimes, I think, "what has to happen to lawmakers in order for them to make laws that are by the people and for the people?" Could the average everyday American endure such hardships in a foreign land? Why must those who already suffer, suffer even more? This whole thing just doesn't make sense - sending off my husband back into a dangerous environment and risk never being able to see him again! The thought is unbearable!:cry: Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and that God will intervene just when we least expect it!:wink: Hang in there and don't give up hope!