Let me know i am not the only one...

[VeronikaK]

Share with me your experience- how you deal with all this immigration issues? Usually i was optimist in this life, but more i wait my case to be complete, than more miserabale i become. I am sooo tired to feel in the middle of nowhere. Everything i do - wake up in the morning with the same thing -immigration, problems, etc, then search Internet. How people find forces stay strong? I dont know...

[milliesmom]

You are definitely NOT the only one. There are thousands of us out there. All of us deal with this a little different. Me? My doctor gave me meds. They don't help much, but I don't know what the alternative would be. I don't have time or energy to go to a support group or anything, so coming to this forum has been a mixed blessing. Sometimes I wonder if NOT knowing anything about the mishanlding of cases would be better.

So anyway, hang in there. I don't know how long you've been waiting, Veronika or where your case is but all I can tell you is that the nightmare could soon end. Since I haven't finished with all this yet, I don't know how it feels. I'm sure others will chime in.

[slvjvm922000]

You are definitaley not the only one. I also have been put on meds to help me a little but hasnt help yet. Just keep telling urself it will all be over soon. Good luck to u in ur process.

[VeronikaK]

Thank you guys, i hope everything will go well on all of us...

[tasksgirl]

No you aren't the only one..
I've been almost obsessed.. I'll get on the internet to check one thing and end up staying 2 hours.. I constantly think about this and I am constantly sad.. Many times I feel like there is no hope.. no future.. =(

[VeronikaK]

Future exists, we just dont know what kind ;(

[SHELLYFCO]

Hang in there. This process is long, difficult, draining and often you may feel as if you cannot go on another moment. Try to think positive, the reward is well worth it all. Once you become more familiar with the I2US family, you will know that you are not alone and at the same time, blessed to know there are others going through the very same twisted road if not worse. You will find comfort, and even though the possibilities of what may happen may seem grim, they are not the norm. I honestly feel that if you are prepared with knowledge of the many different scenarios that can occur involving your situation, (as expressed in the thousands of posts) you can cope. It isn't always great news and there are days when you want to throw in the towel but hang on tight. . .the friends here will surely help you!

[aprilstorm]

You are not alone. I had such a bad time....some days were better than others....but not a day went by that I didn't cry. Finally my hubby was approved in May. It was a long hard road but we got through it. I also was put on meds and if I hadn't found this site I probably would have been in a looney bin because I had no one to talk to..everyone just didn't understand.
Remember that we are here for you and you will never be alone again!!!!

[mrs.vargo]

No, you're definitely not alone! All the waiting is very hard, I know. After more than a year of being married and waiting for our appointment, I saw that I started to pick fights with my husband. I was angry that I had so much education, so much to offer, and yet the highlight of my day was giving our puppy a treat for not going potty in the house. I felt useless and depressed. The day will come soon. As hard as it is, try to stay positive and remember that it WILL pay off. *Hug*

[MMGCA]

Yeah defenetly your not the only one.......like everyone tells you there are thousands of people waiting for an answer from immigration....(my self included)....so hang in there....we have to make the best of it!..........take care!!!

[cindy101]

Some days seem so hard, and others just ok. I can't remember the last time I felt happy anymore. I just keep hoping (with the help of everyone on this site) that someday, my husband will be back here.

Hang in there!!! Have faith, it seems to be what keeps us going!

[princesa]

I think most (if not all) of us on this site have gone through all of this. I took meds but they didn't help, I have picked fights with my husband, I cry daily, but what helps me the most is reading in my bible and knowing that God is watching over my family and with his help we will get through this. Sending prayers your way for you and your family.