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brezarenee
08-24-2008, 08:48 PM
This is long…sorry. But I decided to post, because I would have loved to have read a post like this before I made our move. So hopefully someone else can find some use out of it ;-) Plus…ahem…I’m avoiding the inlaws at the moment, so I have the time to write a novel…

***Our trip from Minneapolis to Mexico City***

Well we’ve made it here all in one piece and wanted to let everyone know as well as share any details that people might find helpful/interesting.

Alright then, so as you already know, we were getting ready for a move to Mexico for a year where we would live in the house that my hubby (and I) have built slowly over the past 5 years. The house has plenty of room (4 bedrooms) but the minor problem of three of those bedrooms being occupied by my hubby’s family. That little nuisance aside, we set out to bring all of our household necessities with so that we would have a complete household not only for this year but for in the future when we come to visit (and for MIL and G-ma who will always live here).

So since we wanted to bring loads of stuff with us, we decided to drive rather than fly and pull a trailer full of stuffs behind us. Seemed simple enough when we started, but, um…well…not so much. Originally since I have an FM-3, which allows me to import household goods and a vehicle for free, we had planned to have me import everything. But then we found out that I would have to export all of those things when my FM-3 expires – so that was a no-go. You are allowed to bring $300 worth of stuff per person when you drive across the border, and anything above that is taxed at a 15% rate of the value as determined by the customs officials. The chances of actually having everything inspected and having to pay that extra tax is rather slim….however, we didn’t want to take the risk. So…we decided to have my hubby do a ménage de casa – which is for Mexican nationals returning to Mexico you are allowed to bring in a reasonable amount of used household goods to setup your home again as long as you can prove you were in the US for at least 2 years and provide an complete inventoried list of everything you bring. Check out this website for more info. http://www.paisano.gob.mx/

We went to our local consulate in Detroit to process the Menage which is supposed to be certified by them, but were told no need for certification, just complete it, make four copies, and bring it to the border. Sketchy, yes, but that’s what we went ahead and did. Meaning each box meticulously inventoried with an estimated value for each and every item we would be importing.

Now, we couldn’t bring our entire household with us because it would be too much and well there are many things that I want to have here in the US where our primary residence will be. So we had to put most of our stuff in storage. We ended up moving out of our house in Michigan and moving all of our stuff to be stored at my mom’s house in Minneapolis. Had we been better planners we would have had the entire ménage done and packed before moving to MN, but we’re not, so all of that sorting and inventorying was left to do at my mama’s house. Luckily she’s patient with us because we literally made a disaster of her house for 3 weeks while we sorted through everything and decided what would stay and what would go. Any new things we brought with we made sure to wash and take tags off of so they wouldn’t look new since the rule is it must be at least 6 months old.

You are not allowed to bring cars in as part of your ménage de casa, so my husband decided he wanted to nationalize a car in Mexico because he worried about the risk that we might face driving a car with US plates in Mexico City. As many of you know the current rule is you can only import cars that are exactly 10 years old. Finding our ’98 SUV is a whole another story for another day, but let’s just say we found one in good shape and were ready to rock and roll with it. Since we needed to nationalize the car and didn’t want to be held up in Laredo, we decided to use an agent to get everything set for us. Hermanos Cuevas 956-753-3190 is a company that many people recommend, so it’s who we decided to use. They seem to be the biggest agency in Laredo that nationalizes vehicles and were very helpful. We just had to send copies of bills from Mexico, copies of my hubby’s ID, and the title 2 weeks ahead of time and they could get it all set for us. The cost for our luxury SUV (ha that’s a joke, but there’s a sunroof and leather seats, so whatever) was $820 including their fee, which I’m still not sure exactly how much it was.

The trailer on the other hand was a bit of an Achilles heal for us. We had all of the rest of it all set but where to find a trailer? We wanted an enclosed trailer because of the rainy season, but our car was only a V6, so we couldn’t be too ambitious. I wasn’t finding any good deals on used trailers so we ended up getting a bottom of the line 5x8 enclosed trailer from Fleet Farm which we are hoping to sell here for what we paid for it (fingers crossed). Since the trailer was brand new, legalizing it cost us $400, which we were told was the highest you would have to pay for a trailer and only because ours was new, not used.

Those details all set…we set off on our journey with our trailer packed as tight as possible and our car packed to the brim, except for where the three of us sat. My mom had taken charge of activities for our 2-year-old during the trip – including many wrapped gifts, new dvds to watch on the dvd player, lots of toys, snacks, and stickers – OMG stickers all over our car when we arrived I’m telling you!

We really thought it was going to be a pretty hellish ride with a two year old, but it really wasn’t that bad. We planned for only 8 hour days to try to reduce his antsyness. I35 goes all the way from Minneapolis straight to Laredo – lucky for us! From Minneapolis first stop was Preoria KS, which is an hour past Kansas City (the Fairfield Inn is nice – we paid $70). The next stop was Temple Texas right south of Waco (The Best Western was okay, kinda sketch area, we paid $75). Finally we ended in Laredo and stayed at the Springhill Suites which were very nice however the price was a bit higher at $100, but after looking around at a few other hotels in the area this was where we felt the safest leaving our car and trailer in the parking lot over night. And it’s located just a block away from Hermanos Cuevas so it made our business easy.

Of course, that would only be easy if Mr. Breza was not a bit forgetful and forgot to take the money out of the bank before we arrived on Sunday when banks are closed!! I was literally banging my head against the wall because we ended up losing a whole day because of this. Oh well, que sera, right? The next day the car was legalized muy rapido, but the trailer took many many many many hours. So late did we get it’s paperwork that we ended up adding an extra night to our stay in Laredo. Turned out to be a good thing though because sleeping in a nice hotel took away the grumpiness that I felt and we were able to wash clothes one last time before crossing over.

So Laredo basically freaked me out because there are border patrol cars all over the place. We were constantly running into them and it made us so nervous. By the time we were driving to the border that next morning we were just feeling relieved to finally cross and not have the worry of my hubby being illegal anymore. Although as we approached the bridge our new fear appeared of whether we would have to unload the trailer or not. Unloading the trailer would be a travesty because it was packed in there like a perfect Tetris board, and without a doubt we would surely muck it up trying to do it again.

I’m pretty sure we were supposed to go through the ‘voluntary declaration’ line, since we had the ménage all prepared, but hubby wanted to risk the ‘nothing to declare’ line – so we did. The first light at the bridge was green – yay! We’re awesome!! But even though we’d entered Mexico, that wasn’t the end of customs. 26 Kilometers down the road was the real customs checkpoint. As we approached it we crossed our fingers for a green, but didn’t even make it to our light and were stopped instead. What could they want? Oh, nothing big, just to see my passport. I’m still rocking it because I’ve got a shiny new FM-3 in my passport and I’m ready to go. At least that’s what I thought, until the agent asked when I’d entered and where my stamp was. Crappolo!! We’d entered at Bridge 2, which is mostly used by returning Mexican nationals so no one had even asked me for my passport and I’d received no darn stamp. I was illegal!!! What a funny juxtaposition that was. Of course they can just give me a stamp at this checkpoint, right? Nope. Not a point of entry, we had to turn around and go back. Finding the bridge again was no easy task. All we could find was the entrance to the US and I was freaking out about us accidentally getting in that line and then Mr. Breza ending up with another EWI or something – yikes! We made a turn down a road that surely looked like a 2-way, but because our luck was not with us that day, it was a one-way with a Poli standing on the corner. Oh you should have seen the smile on his face to see a car with US plates actually make an illegal turn. He was ecstatic to get his mordida. It was only $20 because that was all we told him we had, he was asking for more though for sure. Sadly, when we were stopped we were only a couple blocks from the bridge where I needed to be stamped.

So we got the stamp – yay! – and got back on our way. Retracing our steps to checkpoint 26. Arriving again I showed mine and my sons fresh stamps and we were waved through to the scary light. As we started to pass we saw about 10 cars loaded full or pulling loaded trailers being inspected to our right so we got even more nervous…but…as we pulled through….GREEN! Lucky us! And I’m telling you, the only reason we got two green lights is because I spent days meticulously inventorying our stuff for the Menage de Casa – Murphy’s law if I hadn’t done that we would have been stopped and paid a hefty fine.

On our way again to the North Side of Mexico City where we would soon call home. All in all, the roads were fine. We took the toll roads the whole way and didn’t have any problems except for the insane cost of them (we paid about $120 USD getting from Laredo to Mexico State) and the lack of gas stations. We almost ran out of gas because we hopped on a tollroad with ¾ tank. Well lesson learned, fill up your tank in Mexico no matter how full it is. From then on we stopped at nearly every gas station we saw because at times they were so sparse - mainly from Laredo to San Luis Potosi….after that they were fairly often.

We had planned on stopping at a hotel that first night since it’s said to be a 14 hour drive. However I hadn’t been able to find any hotels online that were near the highway. (Now that I’ve arrived I’ve heard that there are some places in Matehuala, but I didn’t see them!). So we ended up just buckling down for a 14 hour drive, which because of our morning hassles would get us there at 2AM. Not too bad with 2 of us driving. Well, lucky us, when nightfall came so did the rain, so from about 9 until 2 am it was pouring dogs and burros. Needless to say, that slowed our trip quite a bit, stretching a 14 hour drive into 16 hours, so we arrived at 4AM on my hubby’s family’s doorstep.

They had NO clue we were arriving then since we’d told them we’d arrive Thursday evening and it was early Wednesday morning. MIL was a wreck and delighted to see us, and everyone else just seemed kinda PO’d at being awoken so early – ha! We went to sleep for a few hours and then unloaded the trailer with the help of many cousins and other fam.

So here we are, safe and sound! We made it! I’ve already got lots of good living in Mexico stories, but I’ll save those for another post as this is already long enough as it is.

dnatej
08-24-2008, 09:03 PM
WOW! Thanks for sharing!

Cherokee
08-24-2008, 09:06 PM
WOW!!!! That is a crazy story dude!! You were illegal in Mexico too funny haha. That is also lucky you only had to pay $20 for the wrong way on the one way. I want to hear more MIL stories once you get a chance!!

brezarenee
08-24-2008, 09:32 PM
Oh I'll have loads of in-law stories coming at ya. I guess there was a big broo-ha-ha last week before we got here between my SIL and my BIL's wife and they almost got in a fist fight over it! So, MIL not wanting any problems between me and the problematic daughter-in-law sooo she kicked BIL and his wife out of our house...hehehe. Now there's all this wierd tension and though I should be happy that we have less people living in our house it's not entirely good news because they left there furniture here! They moved in with her parents and say there's not enough room to move the KING sized bedroom set and GINORMOUS wardrobe that they bought. WHY in the world would you buy so much furniture if you are living in someone else's house???!!! I just don't get it. So now the furniture is staying, but we're not allowed to use it. As if we are some sort of storage place? Not sure what to do about it because basically we can't buy my son any furniture until they move out of what is supposed to be his room. I've been rude to them about it saying I need the space and they need to move their stuff, but my hubby is a complete pushover about it and even though he agrees with me that having their stuff here sucks he says they don't have anywhere to put it. How about on my back porch?????? hehehe....I mean seriously, if they hadn't spent $1500USD on the furniture they would have enough money to put the darn roof on their house and just move in already.

um...yeah...that's just a start...I'll eventuall go on, and on, and on, and on....hehehe

Cherokee
08-24-2008, 09:38 PM
It sounds like they are totally trying to take advantage of you guys! Why are they being so lame? And 1500!!! That is crazy. And a fight between the ladies of the house?! What is going on down there? haha.
You should take a vay-cay up to California and leave them all down there :)

Laura
08-24-2008, 09:54 PM
I moved this to Life in Mexico because I think it could be very useful for people who need information on moving there. Thanks for the detailed report Breza. I know I can't wait to hear more. :)

jeannie
08-24-2008, 10:52 PM
Wow, you just made me think about a couple of things that I had not even thought about?
I was wondering, Would it have been easier for hubby to walk through the border and you drive through on your own, so that you would not have had the risk of him being stopped or have another ewi (because of the u turn)? I'm glad you made it safe. I'm only asking so to get more info. Maybe we should do this.
People are always fighting within the family this is normal. I'm glad you haven't had any problems with the in law though. When I first met my in laws they thought I was too fresa because I was born here. I'm not! Whatever.:zip:

Glad you checked in. Also glad to hear everything is okay.:cheerful:

simply-heartfelt
08-24-2008, 11:24 PM
So glad to see you made it there safely!!! Thanks for sharing!!

DeBenny
08-24-2008, 11:31 PM
Wow! I'm glad that you were able to make it back safely. I am glad that your MIL was thinking ahead and had the SIL move out.

jsierra1982
08-25-2008, 12:18 AM
glad you made it safely!

are you near the airport? we stayed maybe 10 minutes from the airport on agricola oriental with my husband's tio...that plus la villa was the extent of my knowledge of mexico city.

mjohnson
08-25-2008, 03:49 AM
Thanks for sharing your experience.

gatita
08-25-2008, 05:34 AM
Wow, I can not imagine doing that drive! Hope you get your house back and done-up the way you want to ASAP!

jsierra1982
08-25-2008, 02:32 PM
It just kind of makes me sad because I can just feel the racial discrimination that is engrained (though albeit in this case it's in his favor) here and I don't want people to love him just because of his skin color. I mean, yeah, definitely he is one nino bien chingoncito, but they should love him because he's awesome, not because he's white. :D


i get you...my MIL (who, along with my husband is dark-skinned) said to her husband in front of me, "we're lucky, our sons both married gueritas." she didn't mean to be offensive or anything, it's just culturally ingrained. (my SIL is mexican but whiter than i am). it makes me sad because she is a beautiful woman but doesn't think so because of her skin color.

Auntlily
08-25-2008, 02:59 PM
Breza!!! I was wondering where you were! Girl, you shoulda called me. Banks on Sundays are open at the Walmart and at the Mall. Anyhow, I'm just glad you made it ok.

PEOPLE!!! When in Laredo, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE give me a call or PM!!!! Laredo is weird..not shady..just weird and I know you will need help. That's me...the Laredo tour guide. LOL....

Breza, glad you made it safe girl!

JamieNickole
08-25-2008, 03:42 PM
i think you should put there furniture in your trailor.. hehe

Chapital
08-25-2008, 04:05 PM
What an excursion! I laugh at your in-law craziness....sounds familiar, although for me, I play dumb because I don't speak much Spanish....I don't want to get in the middle of anything.

My husband is in North DF too...right now in an area of San Juan Ticoman called La Presa, but he grew up near reclusario norte, I think in a place called Chalma. I'll be there in 2 days!!!!!!!!!!

Have fun settling in!

perez782
08-25-2008, 04:17 PM
Bre: I'm glad that you made it safe and what a crazy drive!! I can't wait to read more of your experience specially your MIL!!!

carlosalica
08-25-2008, 04:20 PM
So glad you made it safe!
Thanks so much for the post, I know it will really help someone that is thinking about doing the same thing!
I hope everything goes well for you! It can be hard living with the inlaws, (and mine were nice)
If you ever just want to talk to someone who's been there get ahold of me.
Good Luck!

SUballe
08-25-2008, 04:31 PM
AWESOME post. Love it....I laughed so many times :)
Thanks for sharing. Lots of good information too! Take care.

gecko123
08-25-2008, 04:34 PM
Wow that's a great story!! I did the same thing when I went into Mexico - forgot to get my passport stamped! Bad idea! Well it all worked out ok in the end... I just had to pay for my tourist visa on my way out instead of when I came in. I'm from Mpls, so it's very helpful to know the steps in the case that I would be driving down there or bringing a car, etc! Thanks! So how long do you plan on staying in Mex? Just until after your waiver appt? (God willing) Or longer?
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What an excursion! My husband is in North DF too...right now in an area of San Juan Ticoman called La Presa, but he grew up near reclusario norte, I think in a place called Chalma. I'll be there in 2 days!!!!!!!!!!

Have fun settling in!

So is mine! Azcapotzalco area. Have a good trip Chapital!!

chalakita
08-25-2008, 04:42 PM
I am so glad you made it safely girl! I crossed the border thru Laredo and I remember seeing "la migra" all around the city, scary!

monki12
08-25-2008, 05:20 PM
thanks for sharing, im glad things went well. On another note, why are you avoiding your MIL?

brezarenee
08-25-2008, 05:30 PM
glad you made it safely!

are you near the airport?

Not really, we're on the Northwest side of town in Villa Nicolas Romero. It takes a little over an hour to get from the airport from here. I'm thinking about flying to CDJ from Toluca if I can find a better deal because there about the same distance!
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Breza!!! I was wondering where you were! Girl, you shoulda called me. Banks on Sundays are open at the Walmart and at the Mall. Anyhow, I'm just glad you made it ok.

PEOPLE!!! When in Laredo, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE give me a call or PM!!!! Laredo is weird..not shady..just weird and I know you will need help. That's me...the Laredo tour guide. LOL....

Breza, glad you made it safe girl!

I'm so sorry Lily!!!!! I really thought about calling you on Sunday evening when we arrived, but I remembered how important church activities are to you and just felt that it would be really rude to call on Sunday. Then on Monday we completely thought we would be leaving that morning. When that didn't happened I talked to hubby about going to the mall for awhile or something and he was like "no we can't leave because the second we leave they will have our papers and we can cross". Plus he was hypersensitive about the border patrol so just wanted to stay in one place. Boo. The legalizing place does have waiting area, but it's not luxurious by any standards. ha.

And no, I didn't think Laredo was super sketchy or anything. There were sketchy parts as you got closer to the border, but we were perfectly happy at our hotel right off of 35 in the area near the mall. The only thing that sketched me out was the border patrol! But that's because I come from the north and we're just not used to that at all. Yikes, scary white and green jeeps.
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thanks for sharing, im glad things went well. On another note, why are you avoiding your MIL?

Not exactly avoiding MIL, more just avoiding all of the inlaws. It's just a bit overwhelming for me so many people in and out of our house. Where we live here there are 7 houses all clustered together where his aunts and uncles and cousins live. And people are constantly in and out visiting. Not to mention the neighbors. It's just overwhelming for me because I'm not used to that many people and I'm kinda getting burned out on the Spanish. I mean my Spanish is pretty good, but I think my brain is just fried because I find myself not understanding super simple things that I definitely should be able to understand.

So far no major drama except that we can't unpack anything because the bathroom is being constructed in our room and BIL hasn't moved his furniture out of our sons room. Of course that causes extra stress because after 2 months of living out of a suitcase I just want to be settled already!!
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i think you should put there furniture in your trailor.. hehe

OMG....that might just be the best idea ever. I wonder if it would fit? I don't think the King bed would, but the rest of it I think would!! I'm going to suggets that to hubby....I mean seriously, if they won't let us use it even for the guest room, then I should have the right to demote it to our trailer!

Thanks for the idea!!! :ty:
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i think you should put there furniture in your trailor.. hehe

OMG....that might just be the best idea ever. I wonder if it would fit? I don't think the King bed would, but the rest of it I think would!! I'm going to suggets that to hubby....I mean seriously, if they won't let us use it even for the guest room, then I should have the right to demote it to our trailer!

Thanks for the idea!!! :ty:

jsierra1982
08-25-2008, 06:53 PM
check out interjet, i think. there were good deals out of toluca. i'm tempted to tell my husbadn he has to find his way over there...

brezarenee
08-25-2008, 06:54 PM
check out interjet, i think. there were good deals out of toluca. i'm tempted to tell my husbadn he has to find his way over there...

Thanks for the headsup! I really need to get on this asap since our first appointment is quickly approaching.

Isn't your hubby closer to Toluca than DF anyway?

jsierra1982
08-25-2008, 06:59 PM
no, he's on the other side. i originally thought toluca was to the east, but it isn't. still, it might be faster to bypass the city and go to toluca. he lived there for 6 months or so, he's familiar with it.

brezarenee
08-25-2008, 07:03 PM
Ah yes, the DF airport isn't the easiest to get to I've seen, so that might be true. Otherwise you could just stick him on a bus. It's probably be a day's ride though, right?

jsierra1982
08-25-2008, 07:23 PM
a bus from hidalgo to cdj? i think that's more than a day's ride...or at the very least a day. and i think it only costs slightly less than a plane ticket... we flew aviacsa df-cdj and i think that's what i'm going to wind up doing for him again...it's a little less than convenient cause it stops in monterrey, but it's significantly cheaper than the direct flights on mexicana.

JamieNickole
08-25-2008, 07:28 PM
glad i mentioned it.. hehe ...it sucks when its YOUR house and You cant even use it the way you want... Like you said its not YOUR fault they dont have a rough... I think your allready being nice by letting everyone stay there..

brezarenee
08-25-2008, 07:32 PM
a bus from hidalgo to cdj? i think that's more than a day's ride...or at the very least a day. and i think it only costs slightly less than a plane ticket... we flew aviacsa df-cdj and i think that's what i'm going to wind up doing for him again...it's a little less than convenient cause it stops in monterrey, but it's significantly cheaper than the direct flights on mexicana.

Yikes. More than a day, that bites.

I just looked up interjet and for the two of us to fly it'd be $650USD. We'll see what else I can find. I'm checking out aviasca right now. And, thinking about looking at bus routes, they do have some really nice luxury buses, but I'm not sure about the price or the amount of time involved in the ride.

losguerra
08-25-2008, 07:44 PM
Breza, what an adventure! I hope you get that furniture out of your way soon!!

BTW. Luxury buses are great. My husband and I have taken a few, namely from Aguascalientes to Monterrey. But after 14-15 hours, it's still a bus and you're still stuck on it.

Then again, you guys just drove the length of like 1/3 of North America, so I guess being constrained to a moving vehicle for extended time is something you're OK with! :p

sandra191406
08-25-2008, 07:47 PM
I'm glad you and your family made it safe and sound. I look forward to reading more!!! :cheerful:

Chapital
08-25-2008, 07:49 PM
My hubby has flown Avicsa from DF to CDJ several times...usually not too bad of a trip and affordable. We flew direct once when we had the kids with us. The thought of that long of a bus ride is depressing....

brezarenee
08-25-2008, 07:50 PM
Then again, you guys just drove the length of like 1/3 of North America, so I guess being constrained to a moving vehicle for extended time is something you're OK with! :p

Ha!! If only that were true. That's why we had to make the trip over so many days because I hate being cooped up for hours. If I could read or work in a moving vehicle, I'd be golden, but I get sick so that's a no go.

Just that $650 really hurts just to look at it. I suppose this first appointment trip will cost us $1200 or so....boo!

Cherokee
08-25-2008, 07:55 PM
Yes, that first trip to CDJ was like 1800 dollars for us!! :cry:
I didn't add it up until we got back though! The ticket prices seem to be going down now though. I just saw one from LA to el DF for 350, when it was 450 a month ago. So, you could get lucky!

How does your son like Mexico? Is everyone in love with him? He's certainly a cutie!!

jsierra1982
08-25-2008, 08:10 PM
it is SOOO expensive! i actually don't know where i'm going to get the $$ to pay for hubby's flight to cdj for his waiver...cause i sure as you-know-what don't have any right now and the mortgage is due in a week...

brezarenee
08-25-2008, 08:12 PM
How does your son like Mexico? Is everyone in love with him? He's certainly a cutie!!

Oh my gosh, he loves it here because of the 7 dogs and 20 or so chickens that await him everytime he opens the door! Also he's constantly the center of attention, so gotta love that. And, he has two cousins around the same age as him so he finally has some playmates! Which reminds me I need to do some hunting and find my camera so I can post pictures for you all to see!

I have mixed feelings about everyone being in love with him though - I mean, yes it's great that everyone in the family loves him and spoils him. But everyone in the neighborhood comes to see him and hold him and amaze at the little guerito. Noone knows his name, he's just el guerito here, which I realize is completely cultural, and I'm fine with it. But it seems that people seem to be in awe and hold him on high purely because of his skin color. I mean the comments they make are purely about his skin color and how wonderful it is that he's white and that he got my coloring instead of Mr. Breza's. Or how smart he is becaues he speaks English. Etc. It just kind of makes me sad because I can just feel the racial discrimination that is engrained (though albeit in this case it's in his favor) here and I don't want people to love him just because of his skin color. I mean, yeah, definitely he is one nino bien chingoncito, but they should love him because he's awesome, not because he's white. :D
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it is SOOO expensive! i actually don't know where i'm going to get the $$ to pay for hubby's flight to cdj for his waiver...cause i sure as you-know-what don't have any right now and the mortgage is due in a week...

Oh yeah, I get you, for sure. Money is sparse. When people said budget flights I was thinking in the 100s, not the 300s. Oh well, maybe we'll have a puppy sale...did I mention that one of our 7 dogs is totally knocked up and due any day???

Auntlily
08-25-2008, 08:18 PM
Oh my gosh, he loves it here because of the 7 dogs and 20 or so chickens that await him everytime he opens the door! Also he's constantly the center of attention, so gotta love that. And, he has two cousins around the same age as him so he finally has some playmates! Which reminds me I need to do some hunting and find my camera so I can post pictures for you all to see!

I have mixed feelings about everyone being in love with him though - I mean, yes it's great that everyone in the family loves him and spoils him. But everyone in the neighborhood comes to see him and hold him and amaze at the little guerito. Noone knows his name, he's just el guerito here, which I realize is completely cultural, and I'm fine with it. But it seems that people seem to be in awe and hold him on high purely because of his skin color. I mean the comments they make are purely about his skin color and how wonderful it is that he's white and that he got my coloring instead of Mr. Breza's. Or how smart he is becaues he speaks English. Etc. It just kind of makes me sad because I can just feel the racial discrimination that is engrained (though albeit in this case it's in his favor) here and I don't want people to love him just because of his skin color. I mean, yeah, definitely he is one nino bien chingoncito, but they should love him because he's awesome, not because he's white. :D
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Oh yeah, I get you, for sure. Money is sparse. When people said budget flights I was thinking in the 100s, not the 300s. Oh well, maybe we'll have a puppy sale...did I mention that one of our 7 dogs is totally knocked up and due any day???


You know, hubby even though he's mexican is super white. He was born with really blond hair and my MIL would pride herself on him being super popular because everyone knows him as "el guero" or "el Pollo". My mom and I make fun of him and tell him that he gets on his high horse when people call him guero. Oh and don't get me started on our unborn little Karinah. Both his family and MY FAMILY (aghkkk!!!) cant wait to see if little Karinah will be dark like me or white like him!!!! She'll probably be somewhere in the middle but might get some of our family traits. Hubby and his dad and his dad's whole family are blond, blue eyed. They're straight up Mexican, but white in color. My mom is half german so her and bros and sisters all have light skin and green eyes. Except for my mommy who has hazel/grey eyes.

bohorquez
08-25-2008, 08:19 PM
what adventure! By the sounds of it there was no way for us to hook up. Glad you made it safely girl!

Cherokee
08-25-2008, 08:26 PM
I don't want people to love him just because of his skin color. I mean, yeah, definitely he is one nino bien chingoncito, but they should love him because he's awesome, not because he's white. :D
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That is a tough one! He is awesome, though, so that is good! At least you know that and they will get to know it soon too. How do you teach a kid to be above that though? Yikes! It's hard stuff.

You should totally sell the puppies!! $100 dollars each. You could have a hook for your business like, "Perritos de los Gueritos" o algo!

brezarenee
08-25-2008, 08:28 PM
what adventure! By the sounds of it there was no way for us to hook up. Glad you made it safely girl!

I know, bummer huh? Well I'm no officially stationed here and ready to be the DF welcoming committee if it works out!!

rosariomac22
08-26-2008, 09:50 PM
I really enjoyed reading your adventure to Mexico and learned some important information as well. Thanks for sharing. I hope I can be as prepared and courageous as you when my time come.

tasksgirl
08-27-2008, 05:28 PM
WOW.. what an adventure.. I can't WAIT to hear more stories !!!
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Yeah it cost us $800 to get down here.. this was vivaaerobus which is supposed to be the cheapest.. $50 a ticket yeah right.. taxes are double.. plus we had to pay a ton of luggage fees .. I don't care if a bus takes 24 hours I am sold on that $200 price tag for us both !!

Anyone know which is better? Omnibus or Chihuahuenses from Grupo Estrella Blanca???

jsierra1982
08-27-2008, 06:05 PM
we took estrella blanca from zacualtipan hidalgo to the d.f., about 5 hours...i was pleased.