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djones9714
07-04-2008, 03:14 AM
I have to say goodbye to my son-in-law tomorrow who has his interview appointment next week. I am hoping that it is only going to be for a short period of time because this is not a very happy moment for me. I am trying to be strong and not cry but the tears keep coming. Even though my daughter and grandson will be staying with me, it doesn't take away the pain.
Wish us luck everyone because we all need him. Our family is on the verge of disaster right now because of medical problems which I still don't want to talk about and we really need him here with us.
Please say prayers that he gets approved fast and can come back home where he belongs.
Cherokee
07-04-2008, 03:17 AM
I hope he will come home very soon!!!
1MessedUpSourPatchKid
07-04-2008, 03:17 AM
will keep your family in my prayers. You are such a good mil. I wish mine was interested in helping with this tough immigration process.
Bless your heart :hug:
simply-heartfelt
07-04-2008, 03:19 AM
You and your family will be in my prayers D!
Luckysprite
07-04-2008, 03:22 AM
Djones - nothing I say will take away the pain you are feeling now over this impending separation - but many many people here have gone through the exact same thing - and come through stronger in the end. You are a fabulous woman - with a wonderful family - and all will go well in the end for your family as well. You'll all find strength in all of this that you never knew you guys had and a happy ending is in the near future!!!
I am hoping and praying for a very fast process for your SIL and that he will be home with you all soon!
djones9714
07-04-2008, 03:28 AM
OMG -- crying again. This time over your comments. I hope the end has a happy ending for all of us -- especially my family! I have always tried to live a good life and tried to treat others as I have always wanted to be treated and now I find myself wondering and questioning everything. Immigration is not the only battle we are going through right now -- I wish it was. However, I will continue to be strong and hopefully will pull through everything. Thanks for the support everybody and keep lots of prayers in your thoughts for my family.
Laura
07-04-2008, 03:36 AM
:hug:
Luckysprite
07-04-2008, 03:38 AM
Someone on the site (eh hmm - caribbeanman) always tells me good things happen to good people ... and now ... even more of a firm believer in it after our approval where right before hand I was much like you - questioning everything and wondering if we were really doing the right things in life and we pulled through - against many odds I thought were for sure strikes against us - so now I will pass it on to you.
You are a good person - a great person - and I am sure that is well reflected in your daughter as well as the rest of your family - so hold strong - in all aspects of your lives that require it now - even beyond this immigration process - because great things happen to great people!!!!
y14gemini
07-04-2008, 03:46 AM
Aww DJones.....I know that this time will go by fast, although it may seem like forever!! As you know I am here for you, for ANYTHING!! Before you know it, your SIL will be here before you know it! :hug:
perez782
07-04-2008, 03:59 AM
D; Sending you a big :hug:!! I wish your family the best and I will keep you in my prayer. Best wishes and sending your family good vibe!!
aprilstorm
07-04-2008, 04:06 AM
I know how emotional you are and my heart is breaking for you. You have been a great support to me and others. It is easier said than done but stay strong my friend. You are a very strong woman and I know you can do it.:grouphug:
JennyM
07-04-2008, 04:41 AM
O mama, I would write a letter to dhs to get it expedited. I know what's going on and hopefully they could be sentimental and let him come back fast.
llanderos11
07-04-2008, 04:49 AM
Your love and strength will keep your family together no matter what happens. It sounds like you need hugs and I am sending you some right now. God bless and have faith.
djones9714
07-05-2008, 05:11 AM
Thanks everyone for the kind words. I made it through today and it will be okay. I keep telling myself that. There are so many kind people here and that also helps one get through this process.
Thanks again everyone.
lilly
07-05-2008, 09:28 PM
dj u know this is the day i most fear as well but i pray a lot to let be as smooth as posible...........u guys are going to get thru this and it will have happy ending
whatever the other reason is u should expedite the case so that ur sil gets back sooner
anyway a big hug to u and ur daughter .
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