Jenalo
06-17-2008, 04:28 PM
My husband and I feel that we should start brainstorming for our HSL. Please let me know if these sound like good evidence of extream hardships. Thanks!
First, I want to start out by saying that I knew my husband in the 4th grade, and became friends in the 5th grade. We were friends up until our jr. year in high school and started dating. I got pregnant 3 months after dating, and married 10 months after. We've been together for 4 yrs.
My family has a history of high blood pressure. My grandma (mother's mom) and great uncle (mother's uncle) has high blood pressuse and need to take medicine daily....If my husband gets denied, I would be stressed out and high blood pressure can be caused by stress.
My family also has a history of strokes. Strokes can be genitic and can also be caused by stress and high blood pressure. My Grandpa (dad's dad) and great uncle (same great uncle who has high blood pressure) had a stroke. My grandpa passed away from it.
My family has a history of breast cancer. My grandma (dad's mom) passed away of breast cancer. I need to get screening.
My uncle (mom's brother) commited suicide due to depression and stress. (Not sure if i can use this one, still need to check if it can be geneitc). But if it is genetic, I would be at risk if my husband had to leave.
I am also trying to start my own business, so if I had to move down to mexico, I would not be able to.
This is what I have so far, not too detailed yet, but im still brainstorming for right now. Please let me know what yall think.
First, I want to start out by saying that I knew my husband in the 4th grade, and became friends in the 5th grade. We were friends up until our jr. year in high school and started dating. I got pregnant 3 months after dating, and married 10 months after. We've been together for 4 yrs.
My family has a history of high blood pressure. My grandma (mother's mom) and great uncle (mother's uncle) has high blood pressuse and need to take medicine daily....If my husband gets denied, I would be stressed out and high blood pressure can be caused by stress.
My family also has a history of strokes. Strokes can be genitic and can also be caused by stress and high blood pressure. My Grandpa (dad's dad) and great uncle (same great uncle who has high blood pressure) had a stroke. My grandpa passed away from it.
My family has a history of breast cancer. My grandma (dad's mom) passed away of breast cancer. I need to get screening.
My uncle (mom's brother) commited suicide due to depression and stress. (Not sure if i can use this one, still need to check if it can be geneitc). But if it is genetic, I would be at risk if my husband had to leave.
I am also trying to start my own business, so if I had to move down to mexico, I would not be able to.
This is what I have so far, not too detailed yet, but im still brainstorming for right now. Please let me know what yall think.