Rperez
04-30-2008, 06:45 PM
To whom it may concern,
My name is Rebeca and should my husband Dolores have to leave the country our kids and I will be very devasted emotionally, physically and financially. When I met my husband I was a single mother of two young girls. During that time it was very hard for me to work and take care of my two little girls. When Dolores came into my life everything changed completely. Now we have a two year old son named Hector. I am thankful everyday that my husband has been put in my path. I am not sure where I would be if he was not by my side. Due to my work hours which are 7:30am-6pm Dolores has been picking up our kids from Daycare by the time I get home our kids have ate supper and done their homework. I am not sure what I will be doing now that he is leaving us. Because of this situation Hector our son will be going with him to Mexico.
Hector and his dad have this special bond that not even I can get in between. Hector does not go to bed unless his dad is by his side. You might think that Hector is too young to realize what is going on but he is a very smart boy. I am not sure if Hector leaving to Mexico is a good idea because he has asthma and sometimes we have to take him to the emergency room to get treated. I know in the long run it is going to affect him emotionally because his mommy and daddy will not be together for a while. Deep inside this whole situation is killing me. I do not want my family to be apart. I am not sure if I am going to be able to handle this with me being diabetic. I have tried to control my blood sugar but since we received the letter I have been very sad and have cried every time I drop off Hector to daycare. They have not left yet and this has already effected my emotionally.
Another reason why this will affect me is financial. Together I and Dolores have a lot of medical, utilities, car note, daycare and rent payments to make. Without Dolores income this is going to be a stress situation. Due to Hector and my illness our medical bills are so high. Dolores income helps pay for all this bills. I am not sure if I will be able to make all this payments by myself. My husband and I work very hard to accomplish our goals together. We are trying to buy a house for our family future we are thinking about our children’s future. How are we supposed to continue this if he is not by my side?
My name is Rebeca and should my husband Dolores have to leave the country our kids and I will be very devasted emotionally, physically and financially. When I met my husband I was a single mother of two young girls. During that time it was very hard for me to work and take care of my two little girls. When Dolores came into my life everything changed completely. Now we have a two year old son named Hector. I am thankful everyday that my husband has been put in my path. I am not sure where I would be if he was not by my side. Due to my work hours which are 7:30am-6pm Dolores has been picking up our kids from Daycare by the time I get home our kids have ate supper and done their homework. I am not sure what I will be doing now that he is leaving us. Because of this situation Hector our son will be going with him to Mexico.
Hector and his dad have this special bond that not even I can get in between. Hector does not go to bed unless his dad is by his side. You might think that Hector is too young to realize what is going on but he is a very smart boy. I am not sure if Hector leaving to Mexico is a good idea because he has asthma and sometimes we have to take him to the emergency room to get treated. I know in the long run it is going to affect him emotionally because his mommy and daddy will not be together for a while. Deep inside this whole situation is killing me. I do not want my family to be apart. I am not sure if I am going to be able to handle this with me being diabetic. I have tried to control my blood sugar but since we received the letter I have been very sad and have cried every time I drop off Hector to daycare. They have not left yet and this has already effected my emotionally.
Another reason why this will affect me is financial. Together I and Dolores have a lot of medical, utilities, car note, daycare and rent payments to make. Without Dolores income this is going to be a stress situation. Due to Hector and my illness our medical bills are so high. Dolores income helps pay for all this bills. I am not sure if I will be able to make all this payments by myself. My husband and I work very hard to accomplish our goals together. We are trying to buy a house for our family future we are thinking about our children’s future. How are we supposed to continue this if he is not by my side?