ohcelia
04-10-2008, 10:07 PM
Hi everybody.... I would like some advice. My husband got his Visa last August 2007.. Now him and me are separated...He used me just to get his Visa. I thought that we were going to be together for the rest of our lives. I did everything that I could to get him his Visa...He doesn't work, I support him, he is sick and I cover his Insurance coverage (Kaiser). Yet his kids give him money and he hides it for me. He hide everything from me. He lets his kids talk about me and do things to hurt my feeling and has never defended me.
let me tell you what they have done.
1. His son does not like my daughter, yet he would come to my house to visit his dad (my husband) and when my daughter would greet him he would not responed back and when I asked him to at less say hi. He told me no!
and to make peace for my husband sake. I bend over.
2. His son got made at his wife , because she played with my grand daughter
who was 2 months old. Once again I bend over!
3. his kids don't like my family because they used their brains to do something with their lives. and better them selfs. One more time I bend over!
4. We went for vacation on march 14, 2008
to visit his family, his mom & dad, brothers and sister were great. But his kids were complete J.Asssses to me they, they didn't even want their kids by me.
they told them to stay away from me. And when I told my husband what they did. He told me that he did not believe me. All I could do and say was wait till I put foot on my Country..Then you will know the real me. WELL I HAD ENOUGH.. I WILL NOT BEND OVER THIS TIME. I FINALLY REALIZED THESE ARE MY KIDS AND FAMILY, MINE! I will never let anyone treat my kids like crap and get away with it. My husband never had the balls to tell his kids, that their actions and ways were wrong. Well no more. I finally told him to stick his kids up his and I will stick mind. I also told him , how would you kids feel if my children treated you like crap. They would not like it, would they.. My husband stay in Mexico and I want out of this marriage. Any advice out there in LA LA land. Thanks
let me tell you what they have done.
1. His son does not like my daughter, yet he would come to my house to visit his dad (my husband) and when my daughter would greet him he would not responed back and when I asked him to at less say hi. He told me no!
and to make peace for my husband sake. I bend over.
2. His son got made at his wife , because she played with my grand daughter
who was 2 months old. Once again I bend over!
3. his kids don't like my family because they used their brains to do something with their lives. and better them selfs. One more time I bend over!
4. We went for vacation on march 14, 2008
to visit his family, his mom & dad, brothers and sister were great. But his kids were complete J.Asssses to me they, they didn't even want their kids by me.
they told them to stay away from me. And when I told my husband what they did. He told me that he did not believe me. All I could do and say was wait till I put foot on my Country..Then you will know the real me. WELL I HAD ENOUGH.. I WILL NOT BEND OVER THIS TIME. I FINALLY REALIZED THESE ARE MY KIDS AND FAMILY, MINE! I will never let anyone treat my kids like crap and get away with it. My husband never had the balls to tell his kids, that their actions and ways were wrong. Well no more. I finally told him to stick his kids up his and I will stick mind. I also told him , how would you kids feel if my children treated you like crap. They would not like it, would they.. My husband stay in Mexico and I want out of this marriage. Any advice out there in LA LA land. Thanks